
Being wise about buying a house was undoubtedly the stupidest thing we've ever done. We bought in the fall of 2007, right before the housing market plunged into the abyss, never to be heard from again. After years of "throwing our money away" renting, we decided to be "wise" and buy. Of course we paid top dollar for a town house that we figured we'd be in for 2-3 years. And of course we figured we'd take the equity and roll it over into the next, bigger house. And of course, thanks to the housing bubble bursting and an undisclosed, pending lawsuit between our HOA and the builder we're now about $100K+ underwater.
But our wisdom didn't end with buying a house at the worst possible time in history. Oh no! The stupidity really kicked into high gear when we "wisely" chose to live within our means and buy a house we could (and tragically still can) afford. The down side of buying an affordable house in the Seattle area is that it's going to be small--really small. And the kicker is we bought willingly*, knowing that we wanted more kids (we had one at the time).
Buying a house we could afford....idiot!!! Had we leveraged ourselves to the max (or better yet, beyond) like so many others, YOU, gentle reader, would be paying our mortgage now. We'd have been bailed out by the government! But no! Instead, we're not only still paying our own mortgage, but our rising taxes are paying the mortgages of all the "unwise" people who got in over their heads.
Sure, we could just walk away and let the bank foreclose (it will take us far longer to get back above water on our house than it would to repair our credit), but that would be dishonest. Boy have honestly and morals come back to bite us. Those without them...yea, we're paying their mortgages too.
Had we only only known in 2007 that a socialist government would aggressively reward stupidity on the wise man's dime, we'd have acted differently. Instead, we acted "wisely." And now wise has become stupid and stupid wise.
Lest you think that I'm implying that wisdom no longer pays, I'm not. Wisdom, it turns out, pays for itself and everybody else. It pays and pays and pays. And that's just stupid.
*It was only after we bought the house that we discovered that the seller had failed to disclose known and major damages that were, and still are, at the heart of a lawsuit between the HOA and the builder. So even if we were willing to sell at a huge loss we can't because no bank will issue a loan on any house in our community until the lawsuit settles.

